Mike asks…

Baby name – adoption situation?

We’ve recently welcomed a baby into our home as a foster baby. She came to us as a 4 day old and she is now 2 months. The program in our area is such that babies like her go into foster care, for various reasons, and CAS goes to court for permanent guardianship. Once that is granted the baby goes for adoption and in this case we will be the adoptive parents. That way there is no movement from home to time prior to adoption and she gets a chance to bond from the start with her new family.

This little one was given the name Brooke-Lynn by her bio mother. Both my wife and I love Brooke because it has a connection to my family but the whole Brooke-Lynn, Brooklyn, Brooke Lynn combo is a non starter for us.

We are going to keep the Brooke part of her current name but as part of the adoption process we are going to give her the middle name of Kendell.

How does Brooke Kendell sound as a name?

Baby Talk answers:

Hey you answered my question so I’ll return the favor :)

Funny that you mention it because my dad wanted to name my sister Brooke-Lynn and my other sister Snow. Thank God for my mom.

Brooke Kendell sounds like a very cute name. And in any case, it won’t really matter to her because most people don’t know each other’s middle names anyway.

Don asks…

should i give my baby up for adoption?(bad situation)?

ok…i know ppl might judge me but this is my situation and i am in need of some advice before i go insane. i am married but seperated and we have a 3 year old together. i am now 31 weeks pregnant with another mans baby who i am also not with. i have no job..live with my parents who supports both me and my daughter for the time being…this has been a really depressing and stressful pregnancy..i have to watch my parents (god love em) financially support my kid..and i cant let them do that with another one..how can i get my life on track with two kids…the father wants to keep this baby but i dont…and with this baby being a girl i dont know if i can trust a man who has guy friends over all the time…and his parents are disabled and cant hardly help out…the bottom line is that i cant provide for this kid and he really cant take care of her either on his own..but i cant talk him into adoption…can someone plz help me out…it would be greatly appreciated.

Baby Talk answers:

You can’t go wrong to give your baby up to a loving 2 parent family. It take huge courage to do what your considering, but it’s not wrong in the slightest. You might want to speak with some layers, because if you give up the baby, the father will also need to sign over his rights. Talk to a lawyer about your situation, there could be other alternatives.

Best of luck to you

John asks…

my girlfriend is pregnant and Im thinking about giving the baby up for adoption…heres the situation?

This is an unplanned pregnancy. My girlfriend and I are in our early twenties. Both of us are still in school. She wants to get married but I don’t think I want to because I m not ready to commit to any longterm relationship. I know deep down I m just not ready to settle down. I know in 2 to 3 years I should be making good money and would be able to support a child; but don’t know if our relationship will work out…what would be best for the baby? adoption? shes want to keep him/or her.

Baby Talk answers:

Its her decision unfortunately u cant make it for her and if she keeps it i hope u will do the decent thing and be a father to ur child!! Life doesnt always work out how we plan it u just have to make the best of the hand u are dealt. Ull never regret having your baby once he or she is here. Good luck !

Kirstie asks…

if for some reason you were in a unforeseen situation and had to choose to give your baby up for adoption or?

have an abortion which one do you think you would do? Just curious after reading an article in the paper.

Baby Talk answers:

Ever hear the story about the two women who both told the king that the baby was theirs? The king, not knowing how to solve it, told them he’d split the baby in half and they could each have half. The one woman was ok with it and the other immediately let go of the baby and said the other could take it, she’d rather her baby be raised by someone else than see it dead. And that’s how the king knew who the real mother was.

I would choose adoption.

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